2nd Date with Caroyln... plus kelvin...

Again she says we're not dating but that's what she thinks. But anways, we watched a movie together again. In one of the movies we watched, Punch Drunk Love, a girl asks out a guy to a date. Now I've been on my fair of asking girls out on dates. Rejections suck and bad dates are a waste of money. And even the good ones, I'm thinking man how much longer until we start splitting bills. And it's not like you can ever suggest it because you'll look like an asshole. You just have to wait until she decides, "no, you don't have to pay for everything." From my experience and what others have told me, there's always a point in a relationship where the girl asks, "why don't we ever go out anymore?" It's easy, it's because the guy is so broke from paying all the time. But of course you can't give that response. You have to politely say, oh I've just been so busy and tired. I remember during the movie, Carolyn was digusted by the fact that the girl had to ask the guy out. I guess in the movie it was pretty lame on both parts. The girl asked the guy to take her on a date. If you do the asking I believe you should be the one doing the paying. Really, all it takes is a girl that takes showers and an occasional shaving of the under-arms and I'll happily say yes to a free meal. So really is it wrong for once that a guy doesn't have to pay? Can a girl at least help me by suggesting to pay half of the meal before I go completely broke?