I don't like your face

I failed to bring down my assholeness today. On the basketball court some girly looking Asian pissed me off, and I had to shove him. How can I straight up not like a guy just because I don't like how a person looks? I'm honestly trying to stop being such an ass but it's so hard. I remember on Doug's birthday, at 6th, this waitress shoved me out of the way to get to the bar. Retrospectively thinking, there's no way she was hot. If she looked good I know I would be thinking man I wish she did that again. Also, the weekend before on Peggy's birthday, some girl tried to grab/pinch me thinking I was her boyfriend. On reaction, I knew she was wrong and I threw her hand out of the way. Again, retrospectively thinking, she must have been ugly. Obviously this is my problem. It's not like they can fix themselves. It's not like they're fat and just need to lose weight. I just don't like the way they look. I suppose I need ask myself, am I just being a hater because I don't like how he looks or is he really just a douche bag?

I just read this post and I realize I sound like an asshole. Man I have a long ways to go.